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Ask Sujeiry: Break Up with Him Because He’s a Virgin?

A woman dating a virgin asks for relationship advice. Should she break up with him if she can’t wait for sex?

Dear Sujeiry,

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months with this 25-year-old guy who is a virgin. We are in love but he is religious and wants to wait until marriage. It’s really hard not to have sex especially since we do everything else including oral sex. I don’t want to push him to have sex because I respect him and love him, but I don’t know if I can wait.

I know it sounds messed up but I am a very sexual person. I physically can’t wait for marriage. But I really do love him and I will be heartbroken if we break up. Please give me some relationship advice. Should I end it? 

Sincerely,

Horny with Virgin

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Dear Horny with Virgin,

Your situation is hard, and not just because you’re vagina is as turned on as a cock. Thing is you knew he was a virgin when you met him and decided to wait with him once you committed to the relationship. You cannot expect him to change his value system just because you cannot wait for sex.

ALSO READ: 5 Conversations That You Should Have When Dating

Should you break up with him? It depends on what you’re intentions are down the line. Do you want to marry this man? If so, maybe you should wait. Use sex toys to play since he is open to doing everything else besides penetration. If you don’t know if this man is it for you, maybe you should end the relationship. There is no sense in waiting for sex if it’s never going to happen.

Love,

Sujeiry

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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