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Ask Sujeiry: Should I Ask Him to Be My Man?

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Ask Sujeiry: Should I Ask Him to Be My Man?

Relationship expert gives relationship advice to a woman who wants to commit but is not sure if the man she is dating does. Should she have the talk with him or let it flow?

Post In Be My Boyfriend

To get what you want in life you gotta speak up.

Hi Sujeiry,

I’ve been dating this guy I met online for three months or so. We hang out and have a good time but I don’t know if he wants to get serious or not. I’m really liking this guy and want a relationship with him but I don’t know if he does with me. It’s just real casual right now. So, my question is should I ask him to be my man?


Ready for The One


Dear Ready for The One,

You want a relationship. And not just with anyone but with this man in particular. So, why not ask him what he feels for you? Ok. Let me backtrack. A man can say he thinks you’re great and that he really likes you but that doesn’t me he wants to commit. Read the rest on Loop 21.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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