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Ask Sujeiry: My Boyfriend is a Bore! Break Up with Him?


Ask Sujeiry: My Boyfriend is a Bore! Break Up with Him?

Boring ManDear Sujeiry,

I’ve been living in NYC for a little over two years and met my current boyfriend pretty early on. In February, we’ll be celebrating our two year anniversary (with one break in between). I realize that he is a great guy – responsible, stable, long-term, safe, with a good job, and handsome. And he says he loves me. But I also realize he is boring!

Many times I find myself wishing he would step up and make things exciting, especially since there’s yet so much for me to discover in this city. I’m very tempted by other men that try to offer me that fun that I’m longing. So my dilemma is figuring out if this is a dealbreaker. I go out of my way to spice things up often and I give him ideas of things to do for me (with persistence). But should I give up a sure thing for moment-by-moment fun?


My Boyfriend Is a Dud (NYC)

Dear My Boyfriend Is a Dud,

My question to you is simple: do you love your boyfriend even if he’s not as exciting as Don Juan or Rico Suave? If you do, and he also loves you, momentary and fleeting excitement shouldn’t break up your relationship. Read the rest of Sujeiry’s advice on Loop21! 

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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