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Ask Sujeiry: Is It Wrong to Like to Date Younger Women?

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Ask Sujeiry: Is It Wrong to Like to Date Younger Women?

A man in his 40s wonders: what’s so wrong about dating 20 somethings? Sujeiry dishes.

Dear Sueiry,

I’m an open, honest and down-to-earth guy. I’m 41 years old but the problem is I like women who are much younger than me. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t pick up girls that are under 18 years old. They are legal! Still, much younger.

So my question to you is: is is wrong for me to date younger girls instead of dating women my own age?


Male Cougar


Dear Male Cougar,

As long as you’re not breaking the law, there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with dating younger women. There is, however, this: you’re 41 and not getting any younger, buddy!

WATCH: Stop Making Fun of My Much Older Man!

Sorry to be so blunt, but hombre you’re an hombre! I’m not telling you to get with a 60-year-old, but what about someone that’s at your emotional level, that’s had similar life experiences, that knows themselves a bit more and what they want as well? This is the kind of woman you should seek to date.

I don’t care how mature a woman can be at 21 or 25 (your discretion with dispelling their age tells me they’re probably closer to 21); she isn’t as mature as she needs to be to be with a man that is in his 40s. Now, if you want to have fun and be the single 40-something-year-old man that’s picking up young, hot women at clubs, live you life! But remember this: most of these younger women will see you as the old dude that they can mooch off. Prepare to spend mucho dinero on drinks, dinners and drinks!

MORE: How to Manifest What You Want from Love

Does an open, honest, down-to-earth 41-year-old man really want this to be his existence? You decide.

Love strongly and wisely,


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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