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Ask Sujeiry: Should I Keep Some Mystery in Relationships?

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Ask Sujeiry: Should I Keep Some Mystery in Relationships?

Don’t tell him everything. But don’t be so mysterious that he thinks you’re a spy.

When I was single, my cousin, Yari, gave me this piece of dating advice: be mysterious. “You can’t tell men everything, you have to keep them guessing.” Well, I don’t wanna! That was my usual response. I truly felt that being myself and showing all of me was the only way to connect with a man so he fell deeply in love with me.

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I hate to admit it, but Yari was sort of right. It doesn’t mean you pretend to be someone else. It’s almost like showing your cards when you have to versus flashing them after your date inquires, “So tell me about yourself.” Don’t tell him everything. But don’t be so mysterious that he thinks you’re a spy.

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So, how much of yourself do you reveal when dating someone new? Does it change when you’re in a relationship or should you hide those not-so pretty parts of your inner self? I dish on this on this week’s dating advice video. If you have questions, contact me to be featured on the next “Ask Sujeiry!”

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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