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Ask Sujeiry: Confused Carmen


Ask Sujeiry: Confused Carmen

Dear Sujeiry,

I’m being dating this SWAT officer for a year. We had problem in the past. He disappear on me for a couple month. He CLAIM he couldn’t take me calling him name, and he thought I had someone else, after he reappear, within a month he text me saying “He didn’t THINK we should see each other again” He also claim it was selfish. I’m confuse with this man, He has no kids, never being married, his not the player type, he has low-self esteem, his 41 year old. I’m only 32. Why reappear, just to broke my heart. Everything was going fine.

Confused Carmen

Dear Confused Carmen,

This man is a mess!  He wants you. He doesn’t. It’s on. It’s off. He has issues!  Don’t get me wrong; some people get a little confused about where they stand and, if they lack confidence, like to play these emotional games. A lot of the time, men do this because it makes them feel better that they have a woman at their beckon call – even when they’ve broken up with the chica a million times. I mean think about it, wouldn’t you feel good if you had a man like that?

I have been in this same situation and realized it’s not really about what I did wrong, but more so about their indecision and need to feel like the man. Don’t waste your time with someone who isn’t reciprocating feelings. Love yourself and do you.  As a 31-year-old single woman who knows what she wants and refuses to settle for less, I recommend it.

Love strongly and wisely,

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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