So there’s a guy at work. He’s gorgeous (in my eyes) and we smile and stare, but it doesn’t seem to go past that. I was wondering how I could make it go past the “smile and stare” and into letting him really know I’m interested without seeming too “thirsty.” Oh, and he’s insanely shy. Any advice would be great!
Eyes on a CoWorker
Dear Eyes on a CoWorker,
Ah, a coworker! I’ve been there, done that!
So, since he’s shy you’ll have to take the lead. If you haven’t already, start off with small talk and some light flirting. Maybe you should ask him out to lunch so he knows that you’re interested in getting to know him better. Just make sure that other coworkers aren’t around when you do flirt. You definitely want to keep it hush.
If he says yes, great! If he isn’t interested at least you know and don’t have to wonder anymore. But woman’s intuition is huge. If you feel that he is interested, he probably is. It’s never steered me wrong. Has it steered you wrong?
Regardless, you won’t know until you try. It’s 2013! That shy stuff needs to go out the door. If you want to know what’s up, just go for it.
Love strongly and wisely,
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