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Ask Sujeiry: How Do I Let My CoWorker Know I’m Interested?

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Ask Sujeiry: How Do I Let My CoWorker Know I’m Interested?

Relationship advice for a woman who likes a coworker but doesn’t know how to tell him. Should she ask him on a date or let him come to her? The answer follows.

Jim and Pam The Office Coworkers DatingAsking out your coworker isn’t as hard as it seems.

Dear Sujeiry,

I have a love dilemma and was hoping to get your advice. You are the love guru after all!

So there’s a guy at work. He’s gorgeous (in my eyes) and we smile and stare, but it doesn’t seem to go past that. I was wondering how I could make it go past the “smile and stare” and into letting him really know I’m interested without seeming too “thirsty.” Oh, and he’s insanely shy. Any advice would be great!


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Dear Eyes on a CoWorker,

Ah, a coworker! I’ve been there, done that!

So, since he’s shy you’ll have to take the lead. If you haven’t already, start off with small talk and some light flirting. Maybe you should ask him out to lunch so he knows that you’re interested in getting to know him better. Just make sure that other coworkers aren’t around when you do flirt. You definitely want to keep it hush.

[ALSO READ: 3 Flirting Techniques To Attract High Quality Men]

If he says yes, great! If he isn’t interested at least you know and don’t have to wonder anymore. But woman’s intuition is huge. If you feel that he is interested, he probably is. It’s never steered me wrong. Has it steered you wrong?

Regardless, you won’t know until you try. It’s 2013! That shy stuff needs to go out the door. If you want to know what’s up, just go for it.

Love strongly and wisely,


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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