My boyfriend went away for the summer and I’m really missing him. What should I do?
Dear Lonely Pepa,
A long distance relationship can be a challenge, even if it’s just for the summer. But, I believe that when two people care enough they can overcome anything.
Missing him is part of the process. You must accept this if you really want the relationship to survive. If you allow your longing feelings to create feelings of insecurity and sadness, then your relationship is in trouble.
Bottomline, you both have to be on the same page. You both have to put in time and effort to conquer the distance. And, of course, you need to get creative to keep the spark and the relationship alive. So, get on Skype on and get it on virtually. Send him care packages and sweet text messages. And, when you miss him terribly, spend time with friends and family. If you both want it to work and love each other enough, then it will work. Love is truly that powerful.
Love strongly and wisely,
Sujeiry[contact-form-7 404 "Not Found"]