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Ask Sujeiry: What To Do When Missing Your Boyfriend


Ask Sujeiry: What To Do When Missing Your Boyfriend

Dear Sujeiry,

My boyfriend went away for the summer and I’m really missing him. What should I do?

Lonely Pepa

Dear Lonely Pepa,

A long distance relationship can be a challenge, even if it’s just for the summer. But, I believe that when two people care enough they can overcome anything.

Missing him is part of the process. You must accept this if you really want the relationship to survive. If you allow your longing feelings to create feelings of insecurity and sadness, then your relationship is in trouble.

Bottomline, you both have to be on the same page. You both have to put in time and effort to conquer the distance. And, of course, you need to get creative to keep the spark and the relationship alive. So, get on Skype on and get it on virtually. Send him care packages and sweet text messages. And, when you miss him terribly, spend time with friends and family. If you both want it to work and love each other enough, then it will work. Love is truly that powerful.

Love strongly and wisely,


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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