What is a smooth and effective way to find out if a Latina female friend has a boyfriend?
Need The 411
Dear Need the 411,
Lucky you! This simple question has a simple answer. The way to find out if a Latina female friend has a boyfriend is to…(wait for it!)…ASK! And by ask I mean ask her, not her friends or her thousands of primas.
Ok. Let me backtrack. Asking her directly is effective but you also said “smooth.” If you want to try the smooth (see: indirect) approach here are a few things you can say.
You: Hey (insert her name), do you have plans for Valentines Day? (If she does, she has a boyfriend. I don’t know many men who take out girls they’re just “seeing” or hooking up with on Cupids day.)
You: You’ve been looking extra good lately. You must be seeing someone new. (She will say thank you’ve because you complimented her. She may also let you in on her relationship status.)
You: Valentine’s Day can be great when you’re with someone special. What do you think? (If she harps on and on about how much she hates Valentines Day, she is probably bitter, which means she is probably single! If she does have a date, she may also spill the beans right then and there. If that’s the case, well, you know…)
So, there you have it! Not so hard, right? Get these conversations in soon. Valentines Day is less than a month away. Wouldn’t the best gift be to know if she’s available or not?
Love strongly and wisely,
DISCLAIMER: The advice offered by Sujeiry Gonzalez are solely the opinion of Sujeiry Gonzalez and should not be considered as a form of diagnosis or treatment of any kind.[contact-form-7 404 "Not Found"]