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Ask Sujeiry: How Do I Know If She’s Single?


Dear Sujeiry,

What is a smooth and effective way to find out if a Latina female friend has a boyfriend?


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Dear Need the 411,

Lucky you! This simple question has a simple answer. The way to find out if a Latina female friend has a boyfriend is to…(wait for it!)…ASK! And by ask I mean ask her, not her friends or her thousands of primas.

Ok. Let me backtrack. Asking her directly is effective but you also said “smooth.” If you want to try the smooth (see: indirect) approach here are a few things you can say.

You: Hey (insert her name), do you have plans for Valentines Day? (If she does, she has a boyfriend. I don’t know many men who take out girls they’re just “seeing” or hooking up with on Cupids day.)

You: You’ve been looking extra good lately. You must be seeing someone new. (She will say thank you’ve because you complimented her. She may also let you in on her relationship status.)

You: Valentine’s Day can be great when you’re with someone special. What do you think? (If she harps on and on about how much she hates Valentines Day, she is probably bitter, which means she is probably single! If she does have a date, she may also spill the beans right then and there. If that’s the case, well, you know…)

So, there you have it! Not so hard, right? Get these conversations in soon. Valentines Day is less than a month away. Wouldn’t the best gift be to know if she’s available or not?

Love strongly and wisely,


DISCLAIMER: The advice offered by Sujeiry Gonzalez are solely the opinion of Sujeiry Gonzalez and should not be considered as a form of diagnosis or treatment of any kind. 

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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