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Ask Sujeiry: Messed Up Wife


Ask Sujeiry: Messed Up Wife

Sujeiry Looks Into the DistanceDear Sujeiry,

My wife is cheating on me with a 24 year old boy. She is 38 years old and wants this boy! She does me so wrong and left her children behind for him. What kind of woman does that? Can you help me figure her out?


Messed Up Wife

Dear Messed Up Wife,

I am so sorry to hear that you and your children are experiencing such betrayal and abandonment. Unfortunately, there is nothing I can say to help you better understand her actions and intentions. She has shown her truth. That The Boy she is sleeping with now is what she wants. It is obvious as she left you and abandoned your children for The Boy. So I believe it is futile to try to make more sense out of this.

Her message is in her actions and it is crystal clear that she rather not have responsibility. Difficult to hear, I can imagine, but there is no denying she wants to be free of…something. So, do yourself a favor. Free yourself of her. Free yourself of guilt and blame and what if’s and why’s. Be the best man and the best father you can be and, in time, you will realize you are all that much better without her.

Love strongly and wisely,

Sujeiry, 1st Lady of Love

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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