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When I’m ready to snooze, I lay on my stomach. But I don’t stay in that position for long. I switch to my side and ultimately lay on my back – and that’s because I’m knocked the f*ck out. When I’m in a relationship, however, I like to be the small spoon. And, according to a study conducted for the Edinburgh International Science Festival, our favorite sleeping position and how far apart we sleep from our partner provides insight into our relationship. Here are five cuddling position meanings and what they say about you and your romantic partnership:
Sleeping on opposite ends of the bed.
You’re in one corner and your partner is in the other. No biggie, right? Wrong! That distance in your bed might just mean that you feel an emotional distance from them. This sleeping position is common when you argue with your significant other and fall asleep angry. You want to be as far away from them as possible. If this is your sleep position every night, you might be headed for a breakup.
Sleeping butt to butt.
According to the study, sleeping butt to butt means that you and your lover are free spirits. Although you are both independent, you trust each other to come together when it counts. Another insight from this cuddling position meaning is that you are sexually connected. Even when you’re sleeping you’re committed to your bae — and you want to get freaky!
Hey big spoon!
If you’re used to wrapping your boo in your arms, you’re the nurturer in the relationship. This cuddling position meaning also indicates that you’re a bit overprotective. In extreme cases, a woman who is the big spoon when cuddling might be possessive and even jealous. You’re holding on to your significant other tightly so they don’t run away in the middle of the night!
But what if you’re the little spoon?
This cuddling position means that your partner is affectionate and comfortable with intimacy. It’s also easy access for sex. When that morning mood calls your partner might be tempted to get some.
Cuddling face to face and all up in your space.
This cuddling position is super uncomfortable! Your arm is under his arm. Your back is twisted. Her leg is on top of your leg. By morning, you hurt all over cause you’re not a pretzel! Still, sleeping face to face and wrapped up in each other’s arms indicates that your relationship is a loving one. I recommend starting off this way and when it’s time to sleep, do your thing. That quality cuddle time will tighten your bond, but separating when it’s time to snooze will keep you young. Ahum, beauty sleep!