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The Love Trips Project: Not The Girl I Used To Be


The Love Trips Project: Not The Girl I Used To Be

I am still writing. At turtle speed, but yes, still writing.  It’s become even more challenging to write about my past relationships because I am a different person than I was then.  Sure, my pepa™ is still the same (como si fuera una muchachita!) but I, as a woman and girlfriend, have changed.

Speaking of girlfriend, I’m in a relationship now. I am actually someones girlfriend after 4 years of living la vida single and dating men of little interest to me and my pepa™.  He is fabulous. Caring. Funny. Affectionate. Ambitious. Attractive. Y Dominicano tambien!

I am one lucky girl just as he is one lucky guy.

That also makes writing Love Trips (the book) difficult. Who wants to write about a metaphorical knockout (my latest story) when basking in the newness and excitement of a relationship?

Not me.

Alas, I must continue on. I don’t want to disappoint my fans or myself. I want to become the successful published author I know I can be.  So off I go, writing about the men who do not compare to the man in my life. Off I go writing about a Sujeiry that is long gone…


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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