Dating Tips

8 Signs That The Guy You’re Dating is a Fuckboy

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There’s a new term trending all over social media. A term that describes a guy women date who is an all-around loser. The Fuck Boy.

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Now, the Fuck Boy is no ordinary loser – noooo! He actually makes other losers look like real prizes. Because Fuck Boy not only walks a good walk, but he talks a very good talk.

What are some signs that your potential new boo is a FBIT( Fuck Boy In Training)? Read on!

1. He is single but not really. 

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His Facebook status says single but he is still in a “situation” with his crazy ex, “sorta” girlfriend or baby’s momma. Mmmm…it sounds just as sketchy as it seems.

2. There is always a ‘but.’ 

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“I would come see you but…” “I wanted to take you out but…” “I was gonna call/text you back but…” The F-Boy is full of coulda, woulda, shoulda’s, buts and apologies. That’s because Fuck Boys are full of false promises – and shit. They’re never going to come through with what they say they’re going to do.

3. He avoids commitment. 

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This is a dead give away that he plans to #WasteHerTimeIn2017. Fuck Boys hate serious talks, especially when you bring up the dreaded C word. Because Fuck Boys are more into having fun and effing around (no pun), they will dodge the commitment talk.

4. He disappears every couple of weeks.

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And no, I don’t mean for a few hours or just the night. When he does dip out it’s for days and weeks at a time – constantly! This vicious cycle has become the norm for Fuck Boys. It’s annoying and very rude.

5. He blames his mistakes on something, someone, work, ____(fill in the blank with other BS excuse). 

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Just like the constant “but’s,” his lack of accountability shows that your beau is full of it.

6. He is down for sex but dates are far and few between. 

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Like freaks, Fuck Boys come out at night. They pretend to plan a date and cancel said date by disappearing or a making excuses. But when it comes to getting some, the Fuck Boy appears as quickly as Superman comes to someone’s rescue. Cause Fuck Boy is always down for a quick romp. If you mention leaving the bedroom to go out to dinner or a movie, he will make an excuse and have an issue with it. That’s no coincidence, my dear! You’re actually dating a Fuck Boy.

7. He keeps you hidden …sorta. 

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Fuck Boys have found a way to make it seem like they’re serious about you. For example, you meet his friends at a party but are excluded when they actually get together. Or you meet his family when he stopped by his house and you happen to be with him, but you’re never invited to any family functions. Sound odd? That’s Fuck Boy’s way of making you feel special but really, you’re just another girl he’s playing.

PLUS: 5 Signs that He’s Keeping Your Relationship a Secret

8. He leads you on.

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If you’ve been “just dating” for six years and your “guy” is still leading you to believe that “next year things will be different,” do yourself a favor and step away from this semi-serious “situationship.” Move on. Because darling, you deserve so much more than this Fuck Boy.

 

Tiffani is a true city gal, hailing from the concrete jungle of New York City. With a large coffee in tow (that’s pronounced caw-fee to my non-New Yorkers) this closeted “self-help” addict and Lifestyles writer is on a continuous quest to discover how to have the best romantic life. An old soul with new age sarcasm, Tiffani’s sharp, witty and tell-it-like-it-is attitude has resulted in many a snafu as she tries to navigate and conquer the most challenging and complicated assignment of all: dating the New York City man. Come a long for the ride as this seasoned serial dater tries to find balance between her journey to self-love and her old school values on dating and relationships. She writes about her lessons and adventures in dating as a twenty-something millennial and all the new rules that apply.