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Ask Sujeiry: Is It Wrong to Like to Date Younger Women?

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Dear Sueiry,

I’m an open, honest and down-to-earth guy. I’m 41 years old but the problem is I like women who are much younger than me. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t pick up girls that are under 18 years old. They are legal! Still, much younger.

So my question to you is: is is wrong for me to date younger girls instead of dating women my own age?


Male Cougar


Dear Male Cougar,

As long as you’re not breaking the law, there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with dating younger women. There is, however, this: you’re 41 and not getting any younger, buddy!

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Sorry to be so blunt, but hombre you’re an hombre! I’m not telling you to get with a 60-year-old, but what about someone that’s at your emotional level, that’s had similar life experiences, that knows themselves a bit more and what they want as well? This is the kind of woman you should seek to date.

I don’t care how mature a woman can be at 21 or 25 (your discretion with dispelling their age tells me they’re probably closer to 21); she isn’t as mature as she needs to be to be with a man that is in his 40s. Now, if you want to have fun and be the single 40-something-year-old man that’s picking up young, hot women at clubs, live you life! But remember this: most of these younger women will see you as the old dude that they can mooch off. Prepare to spend mucho dinero on drinks, dinners and drinks!

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Does an open, honest, down-to-earth 41-year-old man really want this to be his existence? You decide.

Love strongly and wisely,


Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.