My wife is cheating on me with a 24 year old boy. She is 38 years old and wants this boy! She does me so wrong and left her children behind for him. What kind of woman does that? Can you help me figure her out?
Messed Up Wife
Dear Messed Up Wife,
I am so sorry to hear that you and your children are experiencing such betrayal and abandonment. Unfortunately, there is nothing I can say to help you better understand her actions and intentions. She has shown her truth. That The Boy she is sleeping with now is what she wants. It is obvious as she left you and abandoned your children for The Boy. So I believe it is futile to try to make more sense out of this.
Her message is in her actions and it is crystal clear that she rather not have responsibility. Difficult to hear, I can imagine, but there is no denying she wants to be free of…something. So, do yourself a favor. Free yourself of her. Free yourself of guilt and blame and what if’s and why’s. Be the best man and the best father you can be and, in time, you will realize you are all that much better without her.
Love strongly and wisely,
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