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Episode 38: Do Women Really Date Men Like Their Daddies?

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Episode 38: Do Women Really Date Men Like Their Daddies?

When you think back at your romantic relationships, have you dated men like your farther and do you still?

I believe Freud: we date men like our fathers. Subconsciously, of course.

Take my exes. My first love was affectionate, catering and…aggressive. He would spontaneously combust and truly scared me with his anger. One night at a college party he tore off his v-neck t-shirt, like the Hulk, and sprinted after a drunk frat guy who had “disrespected” him. Elijah almost kicked his ass. He swung and growled and only stopped after his cousin calmed him down because the cops were called.

Papi reacted the same many times. Loving and warm one minute, throwing our speakers out a four-story window the next.

So, yea. Elijah and Papi were birds of a feather. I made a mental note of that then and promised not to repeat this mistake. I did. What can I say? It  takes a few cocotasos for me to learn a lesson. And it seems I’m not be the only one.

PLUS: 5 Lessons I Learned Through Social Media Dating 

According to a SeekingArrangement poll, 49% of women admitted to unconsciously dating men like their fathers because of similarities in personality. Here are more findings:

  • 22% of women date men like their fathers because they share similar values
  • 16% of women date men like their fathers because they make them feel secure
  • 10% of women date men like their fathers because they have similar physical features
  • 3% of women date men like their fathers because they provide closeness like that of a father figure

What say you, chicas? Can you relate to these findings? When you think back at your romantic relationships, have you dated men like your farther and do you still? Share in comments and make sure to listen to this episode of Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw on reVolver Podcast.

 

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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