Did I ever tell you how I lost my virginity? It’s an awful story. How awful? Let’s just say that I had sex for the first time, bled and never heard from him again. Yup. That bad.
I met him at a party at a rooftop bar. He was a college student; I was 4 years his senior. And he wasn’t my boyfriend. Which is crazy as I held onto my V-card for 24 years. Why him? I was tired of explaining to men why I hadn’t had sex. And most men were too intimidated (or just fucking terrified) to date me when they discovered I was a V.
My virginity was my scarlet letter. I was branded like spoiled cattle. I felt I had to get rid of it like herpes, if only to save my romantic life.
I talk about what happened when I lost my v-card in more depth on my podcast, Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw on reVolver Podcasts. Plus, what time of the day to have sex so it’s the best sex and the top dating dealbreakers you should watch out for. Listen below!