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Episode 4: Talking About Your Sexual Past Helps Your Relationship

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Episode 4: Talking About Your Sexual Past Helps Your Relationship

Boo doesn’t need to know how fulano licked my kitty cat, but should he?

No one wants to talk about their past sexual experiences. I know I don’t. I mean, I dish with strangers and friends, but Boo doesn’t need to know my number (or want to know), or how fulano licked my kitty cat so good that I praised Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

But, should you talk about your sexual past with your current beau? Yea! Because it can teach you about your significant others needs. Maybe there’s something his or her ex did in the bedroom that they liked that you should be trying. How do broach the often uncomfortable subject? Some advice:

  • Start by making sure the person is open.
  • Be aware of your partner’s insecurities.
  • Reference a movie, like 50 Shades Darker, to explore fantasies.

More on this plus how to spice up your sex life and stay connected when in a long-term relationship on Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw with guest co-host Vicky Barrios, MSW and love coach.

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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