No one wants to talk about their past sexual experiences. I know I don’t. I mean, I dish with strangers and friends, but Boo doesn’t need to know my number (or want to know), or how fulano licked my kitty cat so good that I praised Jesus, Mary and Joseph.
But, should you talk about your sexual past with your current beau? Yea! Because it can teach you about your significant others needs. Maybe there’s something his or her ex did in the bedroom that they liked that you should be trying. How do broach the often uncomfortable subject? Some advice:
- Start by making sure the person is open.
- Be aware of your partner’s insecurities.
- Reference a movie, like 50 Shades Darker, to explore fantasies.
More on this plus how to spice up your sex life and stay connected when in a long-term relationship on Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw with guest co-host Vicky Barrios, MSW and love coach.