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My Pepa Gets Sore: One Woman’s Battle With Her Small Vagina

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Sore Vagina After SexMy pepa™ must be the tiniest vagina ever created by X and Y chromosomes. It has trouble expanding even after multiple nights of sexing, and it’s depth is nothing like an abyss. So instead of enjoying hours and hours upon sex with a not-so-average pene, my pepa™ cries for mercy. My pepa™ needs time.

My pepa™ gets sore.

I don’t know how many women have experienced this dilemma. What I do know is that there are ways to break in my pepa™, if need be. It’s all about taking it slow; inch by inch, one can even say. It’s also about open communication and understanding with the designated pepa™ breaker.

Not all men will be up for the challenge. Some will become frustrated when your pepa™ clenches. They will try to ram their instrument all the way in, from tip to shaft. Some may work her too fast, forgetting your pepa™ gets sore. But there are others who will ask if you are okay. Ask if you want them to stop. There are those men who won’t think with ther penises and think with their hearts.

Here’s to those men who believe in pleasing a woman, who know that not all pepas™ are made of the same skin and tissue, and who listen to their woman’s sexual needs. And ladies, we must express ourselves. Without communication, the pain will not ease and pleasure will never come (which means you will never cum). So say something. Open your lips and speak up for your pepa™. Say to your partner, “Dude, my pepa gets sore,” and hope he loves and respects her just the same.

Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on Latina.com, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.