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Stay aHEAD of the Game! 3 Simple Tips to Give Great BJs

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What man doesn’t like getting head? Whether for sexual pleasure, the submissiveness, the authority, or he just likes seeing your pretty face gliding down his pleasure zone, men love women who give great blow jobs.

But giving good head isn’t as easy as sharing stories of blow job conquests during a girls-night-out. It isn’t a skill that is biological or even inherited. Being great at sucking that lollipop is a learned art form; when mastered the man on the other side of your lips will scream your name in ecstasy, thanking the glorious stars and angels above.

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So, how do you get aHead of the game and become a penis-sucking pro? Have a lot of confidence, work on your technique and follow these blow-job mastering sex tips:

Attitude is everything.

Attitude is an obvious yet vital step in the art of performing fellatio.  If you approach the male penis like it’s an underpaid 9-to-5 job you hate, it won’t do much to get him hard – or even worse, keep him hard.

Make eye contact.

In Jenna Jameson’s book, “How to Make Love Like A Porn Star,” her first rule to giving good head is “Thou Shalt Make Eye Contact.”

When you’re going down on him, keep your hair out of your face and look up at him with big doe eyes. Make sure that you’re always giving him a good show in bed because men, as we all know, are turned on by visuals.

Ain’t nothing better than giving bomb head while staring right into the eyes of your partner. Remember all that appreciation you’ve been lacking? He will damn sure appreciate you now!

Master a technique.

Some men like fast and aggressive tugging and sucking (minus the teeth of course – ouch!) while others prefer slow, soft movements. The truth is one technique does not fit all, so you have to use your imagination. For instance, if he’s well endowed and you gag every time you try to deep throat, use your tongue to massage the tip of the penis to the shaft. Do this a few times and lick him like an ice cream cone on a hot summer day. You’ll have him speaking in tongues!

For those who don’t have a problem with deep throating, take it to the next level and include his balls.

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No matter what his size or your expertise go ahead and give him a little head. Have fun with it, chances are he most certainly is.

 

Zayda is a writer from New York who enjoys dishing on entertainment, pop culture and sex.