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A Small Penis Isn’t So Bad! Here’s Why

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Once upon a time I desired a man with a small Johnson. While other women relished in mandingos and anacondas I cooed at the average male penis.

Maybe it’s because I was a later bloomer (I was a virgin until the age of 23). Or perhaps it was my first lover’s smaller size that gave me an appreciation for the little guys. Regardless, there are some benefits to sex with a small pecker. Here’s why sleeping with a man with a small wanker isn’t so bad.

He will try harder to please you.

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Let’s face it: men know a lot about their package. Just like you know the size of your breasts (a mouthful, thankyouverymuch) or that you have a J.Lo booty, a man is aware of his penis size. Penis size is such a big deal that men often measure their magic stick. And a smaller penis is usually more self-conscious. That’s why he will try harder to please you. He may even go down south more often than the guy with a killer-sized missile. Also, his need to please may not just be sexual. He may treat you like a Queen because his little friend wants to keep you around.

He will focus on the motion in the ocean.

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Some men with big penises don’t know how to work them. That’s because they believe it’s all they need to satisfy a woman. On the contrary, a man with a smaller penis works on his technique. He knows what he’s carrying; it may not be enough to make you ooh and ah, so he perfects his swerve, rotates his hips, and pays attention to your moans. His motion is on fleek.

Your vagina may get used to it.

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Vaginas stretch out wide enough to pop out a baby. They also hug whatever enters (with consent, of course). That means she can snugly wrap her walls around a small penis. Give it a try!

You don’t need as much foreplay.

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You’re having sex with a man and you feel like his big Johnson is playing in your uterus. He’s most likely hitting your cervix – and you feel like you have to pee! For this not to be the case, you need more foreplay. When a woman is fully aroused the length of her vagina increases and his big penis doesn’t make contact with her cervix. On the flip side, a man with a smaller penis rarely hits the cervix. So you don’t have to be fully wet and turned on to get the party started. You can get it on that much faster!

It’s just easier.

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One woman told me that she prefers sleeping with men who are smaller because she uses less lube. Makes sense, when you have sex with a big one you have to be really wet and often need him to ease it in. But, a small to average-sized penis slides right in, ladies! Appreciate the no fuss no muss beauty of it all — even when it’s small.

Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on Latina.com, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.