Sex

He Has a Small Pecker? No Problem!

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Once upon a time I desired a man with a small Johnson. While other women relished in mandingos and anacondas, I cooed at the average male penis.

Maybe it’s because I was a later bloomer (I was a virgin until the age of 23). Or perhaps it was my first lover’s smaller size that helps me appreciate the little guys. Regardless, there are benefits to sexing a man with a small penis – and here they are!

He will try harder to please you.

Just like you are fully aware of your breast size (or your J.Lo booty) a man is aware of his penis size. Penis size is such a big deal for men that they often measure their magic stick. And due to societal pressure to measure up, a man with a smaller penis is usually more self-conscious. That’s why he will try harder to please you. He may even go down south more often than the guy with the killer-sized missile.

Also, sometimes his need to please may not just be sexual. He may treat you like a Queen because his little friend wants to keep you around.

He will focus on the motion in the ocean.

Some men that have big penises believe that is all they need to satisfy a woman. On the contrary, a man with a smaller penis works on technique. He knows what he’s carrying. It may not be enough to make you ooh and ah; so he perfects his swerve, rotates his hips, and pays attention to your sex moans. In other words, the motion in the ocean is on fleek.

Our vaginas get used to it.

Our vaginas stretch wide enough to push out a baby, which means they can also hug whatever enters (with consent, of course). So she can snugly wrap her walls around a small penis. Give it a try!

You don’t need as much foreplay.

Check this scenario. You’re having sex with a man and you feel his big Johnson in your uterus. He’s most likely hitting your cervix. And you feel like you have to pee! To nip this in the bud, you need to be super turned on. When a woman is fully aroused the length of her vagina increases, therefore his big penis doesn’t make contact with her cervix. On the flip side, a man with a smaller penis rarely hits the cervix. So you can skip the long ass foreplay and get it on that much faster!

It’s just easier.

When you have sex with a big one you often need to ease it in. You may also need the help of lubricants. Well, a small to average-sized penis slides right in! Appreciate the no fuss no muss beauty of it all — even when small.

Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on Latina.com, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.