Losing My V-Card and The Best Time for Sex

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Did I ever tell you how I lost my virginity? It’s an awful story. How awful? Let’s just say that I had sex for the first time, bled and never heard from him again. Yup. That bad.

I met him at a party at a rooftop bar. He was a college student; I was 4 years his senior. And he wasn’t my boyfriend. Which is crazy as I held onto my V-card for 24 years. Why him? I was tired of explaining to men why I hadn’t had sex. And most men were too intimidated (or just fucking terrified) to date me when they discovered I was a V.

My virginity was my scarlet letter. I was branded like spoiled cattle. I felt I had to get rid of it like herpes, if only to save my romantic life.

I talk about what happened when I lost my v-card in more depth on my podcast, Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw on reVolver Podcasts. Plus, what time of the day to have sex so it’s the best sex and the top dating dealbreakers you should watch out for. Listen below!

Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on Latina.com, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.