How Talking About Your Sexual Past Helps Your Relationship

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No one wants to talk about their past sexual experiences. I know I don’t. I mean, I dish with strangers and friends, but Boo doesn’t need to know my number (or want to know), or how fulano licked my kitty cat so good that I praised Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

But, should you talk about your sexual past with your current beau? Yea! Because it can teach you about your significant others needs. Maybe there’s something his or her ex did in the bedroom that they liked that you should be trying. How do broach the often uncomfortable subject? Some advice:

  • Start by making sure the person is open.
  • Be aware of your partner’s insecurities.
  • Reference a movie, like 50 Shades Darker, to explore fantasies.

More on this plus how to spice up your sex life and stay connected when in a long-term relationship on Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw with guest co-host Vicky Barrios, MSW and love coach.

Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on Latina.com, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.