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Taking You to Orgasm Church! (Amen on Achieving the Big O)

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When it comes to sex I’m a fortunate gal. I orgasm almost always and that has been the case for most of my life. But, I’m part of a small club of women. Turns out heterosexual women have less orgasms than any other woman.

A recent study revealed that 86 percent of lesbians orgasm almost always compared to 65 percent of straight women. Bisexual women aren’t that far behind with only 66 percent stating they experience the Big O. What’s the deal? Apparently, men are the culprits! Okay, that’s not entirely true. It seems some things are missing pre and post sex. Luckily, there’s a way to up your ‘Oh!’ game. You can…

…ask for more oral sex
…have longer lasting sex
…praise your lover during sex to boost their confidence, which then increases their desire to satisfy you
…speak your mind and let your lover know he’s missing your spot
…show your lover where your O spot actually is
…masturbate so you know where your O spot actually is
…text your lover naughty things to tease him
…try new sexual positions
…anal stimulation
…sexy or dirty talk (whatever floats your boat)
…share your fantasies

Also, feeling emotionally satisfied in your relationship almost always guarantees an orgasm. So get to work on improving your union.

PLUS: Why Guys Wish Women Would Stop Faking Orgasms

Want more? I share why I orgasm so danm much. Listen for other tips to get that Big O (I take you to Orgasm Church); plus a story about the first time I masturbated. This and more on episode 12 of Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw on reVolver Podcasts.

Love Sujeiry is an aspirational lifestyle brand for Latinas and women of color that champions authenticity and manifestation. The owner and founder, Sujeiry Gonzalez, is the host of “Love Sujeiry: Dish Served Raw" on reVolver Podcasts. Previously, she hosted a show on SiriusXM in NYC and Exitos 93.9FM in Los Angeles. The content creator has also been featured on Latina.com, YourTango, Cosmo, Momstatic, Mommynoire, NBC Latino as she inspires women to dish on love, sex, and relationships, and to be their best selves. Sujeiry tells it like it is and shares her triumphs, devastating blows, tales of new mami life, and her creative career moves on her web series, "Love Bytes with Sujeiry," where she is authentically herself and holds nothing back. Ultimately, Love Sujeiry serves to entertain and inspire women to live authentically, find fulfillment through manifestation, love themselves, follow their passions and never ever settle.