My phone buzzes and I peek over in anticipation. I met a man on an online dating site and I’m hoping he calls again. But it’s not him. Instead, it’s my friend Kay from New York City. Not who I expected, but still a pleasant surprise. Kay and I haven’t spoken in a while. She begins to share a weird dating experience.
A man whom she met years ago contacted her on Facebook and declared his love for her. “It’s like he’s been watching me for years,” she types. “Nice effort that I wish would come from someone else,” she continues. And I get it. It’s almost always the ones we don’t want that declare their love and go the extra mile. Often times my phone rings and it’s the wrong guy at the other end of the line. It’s the one whom I’m just not into or just can’t get the hint. Or the one who doesn’t want to let go even though I need him to for my emotional well being.
“I am tired of dating,” I replied. “Much like Charlotte in Sex and the City,” I continued with an LOL.
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