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How Yesterday’s Bad Sex Will Lead to Today’s Awesome Orgasm

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How Yesterday’s Bad Sex Will Lead to Today’s Awesome Orgasm

Want better sex? Take a look at the past and what you don’t like in order to orgasm in the present.

Did you know that women reach their sexual peak in their late 30s while men experience theirs in their early 20s? This can explain why some older women rock a young man’s world. (RIP Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher.) And because a woman’s sexual peak is so much later in life, we are at an advantage. We should use the bad or inexperienced sex of the past to understand a better and more orgasmic tomorrow. Not only can we finesse our own skills but we can also make the essential discovery of what we like and don’t like in bed.

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When you first start having sex, it’s often awkward because you’re learning as you go. I didn’t know what good sex was until my second partner. I was with my first for so long yet I had never experienced an orgasm. Needless to say, experiencing The Big O for the first time was awesome. It awakened a sexual lioness within that had never reached the surface during my first sexual relationship. I was on the road to sexual discovery and loved every throbbing, heart-pounding, sweaty, naked second of it.

Even if you started out with multiple partners, it was still a crap shoot. You still had to figure out what worked and what didn’t work for your body, and how to make your lover worship the ground you walk on because you’re just that good. Over time you learned about your vagina and your sweet spots. You may have discovered that you may prefer one position over another, oral sex over intercourse, licking over kissing or a smorgasbord of endless possibilities.

If you like to be licked right before sex , you may not have know this on your first go around, or your second or maybe even your third. But after the hits and misses, if you absorb the lessons, you will experience some of the best sex of your life.

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Remember that it begins with having confidence in yourself as a sexual being. Once that confidence is in place you can please the one you’re with. That confidence gives you the strength to understand your body and the buttons that need to be pushed to take you over the sexual edge. And, oh what a fall it is!

Zayda

Zayda is a writer from New York who enjoys dishing on entertainment, pop culture and sex.

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