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6 Questions You May Have About Anal Sex

Ever wanted to do anal but fear it with all your might? Our resident sex therapist can ease your worries.

Many women have a negative attitude toward anal intercourse. Some of you are clenching your butt hole with just the thought. However, the anus is more sensitive than the vagina and can lead to a great orgasm. It’s worth it! You just have to know how to do it, be prepared, and make sure that you and your partner are on the same page.

You may also have some questions about anal sex. Luckily, I am here to ease your worries so he can (possibly) ease on into your anus. Here are some tidbits that may help:

Will I enjoy it?

Most women who don’t enjoy anal sex are probably doing it wrong. Once you do know how to do it you may fall in love with it and unlock a new door to love making! That’s because the anus has dense groups of nerve endings that can respond erotically.

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Is he too big?

There is enough room for the average-sized penis. However, you should never force anything. It’s important to remember that the anus and rectum require a more deliberate and gradual approach than the vagina does. Make sure you communicate with your partner about his size and how you feel before he sticks it in.

How should I prepare?

The anus doesn’t naturally lubricate as much as the vagina. Yes, you should use lube. Silicone-based lubricant is the best since it lasts the longest and doesn’t need to be reapplied. Also, to prepare use kegels to relax your sphincter muscles. You will ultimately derive pleasure from the fullness and pressure you feel in your rectum.

What is a good position for a first timer?

Do not do doggy style! You need to have more control over the pressure and depth of entry. Try laying on your side and spooning so that penetration isn’t as deep and you feel more relaxed. I do recommend doggy style when you are a pro. It’s the easiest position for experiencing orgasm when getting it from the back.

Should I do it with just any guy?

When it comes to anal sex, teamwork makes the dream work. There must be mutual trust and care in the relationship so that you can relax and be penetrable.

Can I have vaginal and anal sex?

Never have vaginal intercourse directly following anal intercourse as bacteria from the anus can cause vaginal infections.

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Anal sex can be enjoyable so do not fear! If you aren’t interested, it’s no big deal, but if you’re curious, take your time. The best way to try anal is to approach it with an open mind and a relaxed sphincter. Talk to your man about it, go over boundaries, and get ready for some backdoor thrusting.

Samantha Williams

Samantha Williams is a bright, upcoming writer with a key insight on the dynamics of relationships. She is well-versed in Sexology and posses an innately rich writing style. Her extensive knowledge of psychology allows her to address the real issues facing today's society, especially women. Her unique talents translate into a writing style that is simultaneously compassionate and edgy. Sam is truly wise beyond her years and yearns to expose as many women as she can to their inner potential.

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