No one wants to hang out and chill during winter months. Have you felt the wind chill lately? Let’s not forget how hard it is to hobble around in heels at 2am. I don’t want to make love in the club (and stand on line to get in the club!)! I just want to watch movies on Netflix with Boo.
But what if you don’t have a man to stay in with? Cuffing season is upon us which means it’s time to find a partner to snuggle with. Most single gals and guys know the deal. Cause (as Jodeci once sang) when it’s cold outside no one wants to be lonely! But who’s the right guy for the winters months? I’ll tell ya.
1. A Friend with Benefits
A friends with benefits is someone you already know and have a sexual relationship with. This guy is the perfect guy to ride during cuffing season. Just make sure to go back to “just friends” when the short shorts come out of for summer.
2. A Friend of a Friend of a Friend
Of a friend! You know him, which is great. A one night stand usually lasts a few hours (if you’re lucky). And you can befriend the friend of a friend during social gatherings. Flirt with him and show him you are available. Ask him over to your place. He’ll be yours for winter in no time.
3. Mr. International
He’s only here for winter because he works in the US and Paris. He is an international student, or he’s a world traveler that is here on vacation. This guy makes for a perfect cuffing partner. He won’t be here long so enjoy him while you can. Who knows? You may even get a free trip out of your winter romp.
Now, please avoid the following men unless you want to be cuffed…forever!
1. The Relationship Guy
This guy will want to be around for more than a season. Unless you want to be in a relationship, I suggest keeping him at a distance.
2. The Unemployed
An unemployed guy will have so much time on his hands that he may never leave your side. Sure, he will be at your beckon call, but he may stay over even when you don’t want him to. Or when you’re not home cause you’re working.
3. The Single Dad
Let’s face it – a single dad will only have time when he doesn’t have his kid(s). This temporary relationship will be more on his time than your time. Plus, if he gets attached he may want you to play the role of mommy. And that role lasts a lifetime. Next!