Connect with us

Women Who Cheat: Men Find You Irresistible

Results of Cheating Study


Women Who Cheat: Men Find You Irresistible

A recent OK Cupid study shows that men are more attracted to women who are in a relationship and willing to cheat. Would you help someone be unfaithful?

Results of Cheating Study

Looking to have an affair? Men will find you more attractive.

Cheaters. We’ve all felt their wrath or have been been guilty of this selfish behavior. I personally have never cheated, but I was an accomplice to cheating. The man that I longed for had a girlfriend, but he also longed for me. We never had sex, but we did kiss passionately once or twice. Our connection was intense.

I helped him have an emotional affair. I was his emotional mistress.

When it was over, I vowed never to put myself in that situation again. I don’t want to have a hand in hurting anyone intentionally. She didn’t deserve that. Others women, however, actively seek an affair. And men find women much more attractive if they want to cheat.

An OkCupid study discovered that men prefer women who are looking to have an affair. Researchers collected 40 profile pics (20 women and 20 men) and placed each dating profile in four categorized groups: The Brazen Cheats, The Married Maybes, The Recently Taken and The Sincerely Singles. Two decoy profiles from each group were then planted into the five cities that won the “most unfaithful city” award. They let the experiment bloom before collecting the total number of messages that each group received.

[ALSO READ: Need a Quickie? Go to Portland – The Sluttiest American City]


The female Brazen Cheats hit the jackpot. How many messages you ask? Within a week, women claiming to be cheaters received 336 messages compared to 262 messages received by The Sincerely Singles.


The female Brazen Cheats beat all other female category for total number of messages. That means that men are all in to be an accomplice of cheating. But women are also looking for some extra-marital fun. The male Brazen Cheats received the most messages amongst the male categories.

What does this say about society and how people are seeing relationships and marriage? Why do you think men want women who are unfaithful?

Photo Credit:

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


More in Relationships


Get Love In Your Inbox

Sign up for the Love Sujeiry newsletter and receive a free chapter of Dating RITE. Plus, stay in the know on all things love, including videos, articles, merch and events.
Email address
Secure and Spam free...






  • First day off in months and Im spending it at
  • True story If You Had My Love was my jam
  • Have you heard this before? That expressing yourself and stating
  • In November of 2017 I participated in thefemalecollaborative WomenWhoRoar event
  • We cut out the star on the wall because were
  • My initial goal and vision for the revamp of LoveSujeirycom
  • Hey girl This isnt RyanGosling talking but you can envision
  • Ive accepted my partner as is He never hid the

Love Bytes

To Top