Lady Gaga sung it best: “You got me wonderin’ why I like it rough.” Well I can tell you why I personally like it rough.
To me, nothing compares to that spur of the moment, hard-core, utterly raw act of being with your guy. Pushing you up against a wall, sitting you on a billiards table, laying you across his desk at his office: you will crave his fierceness. He takes you and you feel how much he wants you.
The scratches on his back. The scattered buttons across the floor. The feel of him inside of you as you set a frantic and addictive rhythm. I mean, what’s not to love about pure and raw sex? Let’s not even call it making love – that is going to imply a certain tenderness that I want to remove from the physicality of what Shakespeare once referred to as “making the beast with two backs.” The way I see it, sex with your guy is a passionate experience that you shouldn’t treat as a routine – like going for groceries every other Sunday. It’s gotta be fun! And it’s gotta be dirty! And it’s gotta leave you feeling like your man has taken everything out of you! Whew!
My weakness is for men to be big. I am instantly turned on when a guy looks like he can toss me around. In a good way, ladies! It’s also a turn on when I look my guy in the eyes and see that I am the reason he is unraveling and losing control.
We as females are capable of that. I challenge you all to change positions and get a little rough, raw, and dirty. So scream, claw, and soar to new heights with a none-to-gentle sexual experience. Need a little push? Here are four ways to work that pure raw sex with your man:
1. Let him take control. Yes, it can go both ways. And because I’m from Texas, Cowgirl is in my blood. But when you’ve got a big guy who can make you feel all feminine and dainty, embrace it.
2. Get those arms up. When he grabs your wrists and pulls you arms above your head while he rides you erratically, it is thrilling.
3. Try a position like the Butterfly or the Lusty Leg (one leg on his shoulder) . He will penetrate you even deeper than before so that your nerves are on edge. “Don’t stop” is on the edge of your lips. Only you’re so out of breath…
4. Put your hair in a pony tail. When he takes you from behind he won’t struggle with loose tresses. He can tug your pony tail and pull your head back to kiss you so hard that he smudges your lipstick.
Go at it rough with these tips in mind. Cause you can’t go wrong with a pure raw sex.