I’m guilty of having poor communication skills in relationships. I have a hot Italian temper and often fly off the handle. If I heard something negative about my man, it was on! He better duck and hide because shit was about to get real – regardless of when and where we were. He was guilty until proven innocent. I was a straight maniac.
Now that I’m older I’ve learned how to communicate in a manner that is healthy and non-confrontational. Here are some tips on how to confront him without losing your shit.
Know the facts
People love to start drama. So, instead of accusing your man of something over hearsay, do some investigating. Gather the evidence before you present your case. Be ready for some push back on his part. No one likes to be accused of something, and he might just deny his behavior. This is where the evidence is critical. Gif by giphy.com.