A woman must know what she wants and needs in a relationship. You have to be “self-first,” as I call it, and be crystal clear on what makes you smile and what makes you hurl. Si no you’ll date any homeboy that kicks it to you, and won’t have anyone to blame but yourself. In other words, if you don’t know your dating deal breakers and non-negotiables, you in danger, girl.
Lets tackle some blaring signs so you can dump the guy who waves these red flags. It’s what Cupid would want you to do right before Valentine’s Day.
No Hablo Español
He doesn’t have to speak Spanish or be Latino, but he should be open to your culture. If he refuses to learn the language and it’s important to you, or he disengages when you utter an “amor mio” or “que te pasa,” he may not be into your culture or lengua. Your culture is a part of who you are. If he’s not into it, a part of him is not into you. So, yes, deal breaker!
All About His Momma
A man who loves his momma is usually a man who loves and respects his woman. Still, look out for the guy who will bring over leftovers for his momma yet leave you starving. Or a man who would rather spend Sunday morning eating mangu and fried cheese over at Mami’s rather than snuggling with you in bed. You may never be his number one. And that’s a no-no. Read the rest on Latina.com.