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How to Breakup With Him & Let Him Down Easy

He’s sooo into you but you’re like, eh. Here’s how to break up with him gently.

Have you ever dated a guy that was super cool but you just couldn’t get into him? You know, the dude you can show off in front of your friends and get their instant approval. He’s decent eye candy; you definitely don’t have to brown bag him to bang him. His jokes even make you laugh your ass off. Yet, even with all of these amazing qualities, you’re just not feeling it.

PLUS: 5 Ways to Get Him to Break Up with You Via Mindy Lahiri

The guy I just wasn’t feeling was in a punk band, had an amazing personality and produced B-Level horror movies. And he was totally into me. We hung out all the time and would talk on the phone for hours. I wanted to like him – the key word here is “wanted.”  But the chemistry wasn’t there.

So how do you let a nice dude down? Here’s how to breakup with a guy you just aren’t into:

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Don't prolong the breakup

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Most of us hold off on giving bad news. But, the longer you keep seeing this guy, the harder he will fall when you finally rip off the bandaid. Not only are you leading him on but you are also cheating all parties involved out of valuable time. You don't want to find yourself at the altar, running in the opposite direction, because you couldn't break it off after the third date. Flickr.com/slightlyeverything.

Tabitha Bauman

Living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Tabitha is a self-proclaimed free spirit who travels extensively throughout the USA. She has a bold writing style and offers her insight on love, dating and relationships on LoveSujeiry.com and TheDatingMix.com. She writers from her own experience as an independent woman exposed to the world of modern-day dating. Her goal is to enable women to value themselves above all else and find happiness in this great big world.

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