Ay, el divorcio! No woman wants to walk down the aisle to end up in a court of law. Mediation can be a bitch and so can letting go of a relationship and partnership. Your hopes and dreams are dashed; your bitter over the breakup; and you might have to split your hard-earned cash – and pay alimony!
Breathe. There is a way to have a stress-free divorce – really! Joryn Jenkins, an attorney with 35 years of expereince that focuses on courtless divorce, and author of War or Peace: Avoid The Destruction of Divorce Court, shares seven tips on how to have a much smoother divorce.
Unfortunately, you can't change the fact that you're getting a divorce. You can, however, work on having a positive outlook so you have an amazing life after divorce. "This is a fresh start; a new beginning," Jenkins states, and "you can decide what happens in the next minute, hour, day, month and year after divorce by focusing on what you want instead of what you don’t want." Focusing on gratitude rather than fear, sadness and what you lack is a great start to move on after divorce. Source: Flickr/com/imagesbywestfall.