Every girl meets a guy that she is absolutely head over heels infatuated with. You think about him 24/7. He seems absolutely perfect – except for the fact he isn’t contacting you! He only texts when he is responding to your texts. He doesn’t try to see you. You are always the one to initiate communication and plans. You almost feel like a pest. It’s 2015 though, so a woman can go after what she wants, right? We can chase a guy and fight for his attention, right? Right?! Hell no!
If a man has feelings for you, he will seek you out. He will want to make you feel important. You won’t have to chase him because he will be right there, wining and dining you every chance he gets. He certainly doesn’t want you to spend your time with other men. He will text you and call you because you are on his mind and he wants to know more about you.
So, what should you do in this situation? How do you stop yourself from chasing a guy? Use these quick tips to stop fighting for his attention and get your self-worth back on track.
Stop contacting him.
If you contact a guy 95 percent of the time, stop! You are making yourself too available and appear desperate. This combination makes women less attractive to men. Men like a challenge!
Edit his contact information.
Ceasing communication may not be that easy. So I want you to change his name to “Absolutely Not” in your phone’s contact list. This is because from this moment you are ABSOLUTELY NOT going to contact him. It may be difficult in the beginning but you need to break the habit of texting this person. If he wants to contact you, he will.
Become less available.
I don’t mean to pretend to be less available. You had a life before you met this guy and you need to get back to living your life. Do the things that make you happy.
Do not stalk his social media pages.
This completely defeats the purpose of keeping your distance. If you are desperately searching through his Facebook, Instagram or Twitter profile for clues to his whereabouts, you are not making it easier for yourself to move on. He will remain in your thoughts.
Remember, not everyone you like will return your feelings. When a man does have feelings for you and is interested, you will know it. You won’t have to second guess his every step and wonder if the attraction is mutual. So, ladies, don’t sell yourselves short. You are worthy of a good man who will treat you right and you should never settle for anything less.