I’m 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I am usually in casual relationships and it seems that the only guys who show an interest in me just want to sleep with me, not actually form a relationship, so I’m not sure if that’s because I’m putting out a weird vibe or something else entirely.
As for what I look like, I think of myself as average looking. I don’t wear make up cause I’m not girly. I am really mature though so maybe I need to dumb myself down or something and wear lipstick. I just don’t know how to get guys to notice me in a positive way. Can you help me?
Just Casual Sex
Dear Just Casual Sex,
You need to attract healthy romantic relationship, and you are not! That’s because you don’t feel you deserve it. You need to work on your self-confidence and level of self-worth. You also need to NOT sleep with men who just want to sleep with you. Why do so if they just want sex and you want more? Even if this means waiting for love, isn’t it better than setting yourself up for more hurt and disappointment, which ultimately destroys your self-esteem? Yes, it is!
So, get to work on yourself. Be self-first. If you are interested in coaching services, make sure to contact me!