I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months with this 25-year-old guy who is a virgin. We are in love but he is religious and wants to wait until marriage. It’s really hard not to have sex especially since we do everything else including oral sex. I don’t want to push him to have sex because I respect him and love him, but I don’t know if I can wait.
I know it sounds messed up but I am a very sexual person. I physically can’t wait for marriage. But I really do love him and I will be heartbroken if we break up. Please give me some relationship advice. Should I end it?
Horny with Virgin
Dear Horny with Virgin,
Your situation is hard, and not just because you’re vagina is as turned on as a cock. Thing is you knew he was a virgin when you met him and decided to wait with him once you committed to the relationship. You cannot expect him to change his value system just because you cannot wait for sex.
Should you break up with him? It depends on what you’re intentions are down the line. Do you want to marry this man? If so, maybe you should wait. Use sex toys to play since he is open to doing everything else besides penetration. If you don’t know if this man is it for you, maybe you should end the relationship. There is no sense in waiting for sex if it’s never going to happen.