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Ask Sujeiry: Help! My Man is Addicted to Strip Clubs!

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Ask Sujeiry: Help! My Man is Addicted to Strip Clubs!

A woman who’s man is addicted to strippers and strip clubs asks for relationship advice. Should she leave him or tell him to stop loving strippers?

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To drag him out the strip club or live life on the pole…

Dear Sujeiry,

My man loves strip clubs. I used to go with him a lot when we were just dating but now that we’re seriously committed I want him to stop. I mean, he wants to go every weekend. I refuse to spend my Saturdays there and he goes with his boys.

So, what should I do? Should I confront him about it? When he goes I pretend it’s okay though deep down I am upset. I have never told him it is affecting our relationship to the point I may not even want to be with him anymore. I need some serious relationship advice about this. Please help!

Sincerely,

He’s in Love with Strippers

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Dear He’s in Love with Strippers,

I wouldn’t be able to be with a man who is always at a strip club. It’s a bit childish. Besides, weekends are for couples, not guy or stripper time. Personally, this situation seems fishy. No pun intended.

Let’s forget the strip clubs for a moment. My question to you is: why haven’t you told him the deal? Why aren’t you speaking up about how you feel? Maybe your once carefree, stripper-watching ways have led him to believe that it’s all good. Your not saying anything about it doesn’t prove otherwise.

Have you lost your voice for fear of being like every other woman? For fear of losing him? I think you play the role of calm, cool and collected girlfriend. That’s why he feels free to watch naked women swing on a poll. You were once making it rain along with him! That’s why he isn’t considering your feelings.

I will leave you with this: if you do not speak up about your dissatisfaction, he will never satisfy you. So, speak up. Unless you’re planning a career as a stripper, you need to tell him his eyes should be only on you.

Love strongly and wisely,

Sujeiry


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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